Expectations – What is a match? Pitfall #1 Not dating for friendship first Pitfall #2 Avoiding 4 Pitfall #3 Letting your heart jump to 6 too soon Pitfall #4 Inappropriate dating Pitfall #5 Mistaking being in love for love Pitfall #6 Not considering your needs Pitfall #7 Putting a deal-breaker on the preference list Pitfall #8 Putting a preference on the deal-breaker list Pitfall #9 Allowing/not allowing change Pitfall #10 Being afraid to try